If you understand these three statements, you will understand why it is so hard to keep a relationship clear and growing.


‘Love brings up anything unlike itself’

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‘Every relationship we have is built on the ones that came before it.’

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A central function of the brain is to defend us from expected reactions based on past experience, and enact whatever strategy we used before as protection to deal with the situation.

This happens with every person we meet.’


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